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Q: 2021/22 What competition should we prioritise this season?
a. The league is our bread & butter, so this year let's have a club sandwich
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c. A bye to the League Cup 3rd round gives us a good start, let's make it count
d. The Europa is our best ticket to the Champions League, this is the one
e. What's wrong with you, let's do the lot, has the quadruple ever been done

Tomshardware 7:48 Mon Jan 13
Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

Wiltell has been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless he has anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread.
This thread is sacrosant.Thank you

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Mike Oxsaw 3:03 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
Block 12:46 Fri Dec 3

Guilt? There is nothing to feel guilty about. You slipped - it happens.

Takashi Miike 1:48 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
block, WHOMAIL

Westham67 1:44 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
I was working in Malaysia in and came back here 2013 and went out with my mates I bought an henry and gave it away. You could have a ton on cuver and will still run out one day and then you go chasing more there is never. I was talking to a MATE of mine about meeting up and dong half a E

Block 12:46 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
First thing I need to combat is the guilt, which I've started a meditation routine last night, it's a self forgiveness hopopono meditation.

Meditation has got me this far, so I know it's something I can fall on and help me get through stuff. So lets see how we go.

madeeasy 12:36 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
Block 11:24 Fri Dec 3

Anxiety and depression thread or not, why has no one asked for a link to the mrs? Site dogs blah blah

Bolty, we all fuck up from time to time. don't worry she'll have your back. Get focussed and get back to the 17 months bolty that she does trust and love

Block 11:24 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
Thank you for all the comments, it's really appreciated.

IT's the wider complications it causes, as it's completely destroyed all the trust the wife had in me, I feel like i've let her and more importantly my son down.

I have vowed to never, ever go back there again. I'm staying away from drink as well, albeit this wasn't the trigger.

I was home alone, the wife was at my mums as we had a boiler issue so had no heating so she and the boy left. I just went off the rails.

Forgot how bad the days after were, I know I can pick myself up and get clean again, it's just winning back the wife is going to be the biggest challenge.

Tomshardware 10:17 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
Block, just think of it as a minor blip, we all fuck up from time to time, 17 months clean is good going.

Sydney_Iron 3:30 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
We all fuck up Block, whats done is done, its never going to be easy, dust yourself off and start again, all the best.

And also all the best 67 with this scan on Saturday, hopefully good news and they find it! The brain that is, nothing else..........Good luck with the job you had the interview for, hopefully you got it?

Westham67 3:09 Fri Dec 3
Re: Anxiety/depression
The only thing that got me of chisel was going to Taiwan to work in 2003. Try not to drink Bolt mate that is easier and then less chance of relapsing

Irish Hammer 7:07 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
Well done on getting to 17 months clean Bolty, that’s a huge achievement. You can do it again, you’ve proven to yourself that you can. I just know you’ll get back on the horse and do your lad proud again.

I won’t say good luck, because you don’t need it. You just need to be you. You’ve got this, you really have. Big love

Mike Oxsaw 6:36 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
The road is rarely straight, Bolts, but you've proved you can stay on it; as has been said, it's a blip.

Didn't you also mentioned you were planning for a beer or two a while back? Sounds like you had a plan in place - maybe a slight underestimation of the outcome?


fraser 6:12 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
Block - These are tough times taking there toll on most. Try not to beat yourself up about it. What's done is done.. Now start again, you've done it before.

ted fenton 2:30 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
Just a Blip Bolty just a Blip.

Moncurs Putting Iron 11:13 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression


Block 11:08 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
Tough few days , relapsed after 17 months clean.

Completely destroyed me, and all the hard work I've done over the last 17 months to win back the trust of the wife has gone out the window, not to mention the guilt I feel towards my kid.

Not good at the moment, not good at all.

Crassus 10:34 Thu Dec 2
Re: Anxiety/depression
67, Flying Boats his thing then?

Good luck with everything mate, your getting there

Westham67 2:57 Wed Dec 1
Re: Anxiety/depression
Thanks ted . I forgot to add the boy has applied for RAF and the Navy

ted fenton 3:06 Tue Nov 30
Re: Anxiety/depression
Everything crossed for the scan 67 !

As for the interview go in there and smash it you know you can do it !!

Think of Declan tearing defences a new one ;-)

Westham67 2:50 Tue Nov 30
Re: Anxiety/depression
it has been a while. I left LIDL its too hard and myself and my boy job in a workshop with really old machines that keep breaking down its making cardboard boxes in Northflleet just down the road 5 days week. He changed from a boy to man within the first week. My daughter (No link) is part time in a Thai restaurant. I have and MRI brain scan on Saturday 4th

I am still trying to get my back work I had an interview with Balfour Beatty today but I wont hold my breath

White Pony 11:37 Tue Nov 30
Re: Anxiety/depression
Good to see you back ted.

ted fenton 7:35 Mon Nov 29
Re: Anxiety/depression
Your always sadly going to get the keyboard warriors especially on here but considering that we're all West Ham some of the posts are really evil !
Ok people will say what do you expect going on WHO ! But I've had ...
I hope you die with covid on your own with no family around you !!
Are you still alive you sad old c#nt ?
And so on ...
But the vast majority of posters on here are really nice people so Feck those that keep you from posting.

I came on this thread a while back to state that I had Cirrhosis had lost weight but had stopped drinking and I had some great Whomails and hopefully I was of help to others in similar health problems !
I'm still dry 27 months now without a drink but my weight is a concern now down to 9st 7lbs but hey-ho keep going eh.

Thanks again for all those that have been there and I wish everyone on here a much happier better life.

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