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"Been through bad time lately with suffering with this. Dark thoughts as well. I know some posters on here suffer with this. Anyone come through the other side of this shit?

"A number of posters have been yellow carded and told to stay off this thread unless they have anything constructive to add.This is a thread that has been very useful to so many, for any other posters with scores to settle, argue on another thread. This thread is sacrosant.Thank you"

"White Pony, are you leaving the site mate? All ok? I noticed you also say goodbye on the what are you listening too now thread?"

Lots of love and good luck to you all.

"If that was for me Mace son, it was a reference to The Office. Far too subtle for this website, admittedly."

Mace66 1:32 Wed Feb 10 Re: Anxiety/depression

You know when you sometimes read something and it doesn't make sense so you read it again and it still doesn't make sense. So you read it another eleventy twelve times and you're still confused This

"That reminds me of something, Bolty son. ""Keith, under 'strengths', you've put Accounts. That's your job?"""

"normannomates 7:36 Tue Feb 9 Re: Anxiety/depression Are you bi-polar? You go from being all caring to the tirade of nonsense you just posted. As for what do those who work in offices offer, we offer the likes of trades people business, personally I generate business for electricians and since August I've brought the company in £160,000. What have YOU done?"

"Everything ok in here, norm?"

Sorry to genuine posters.. you are being taken the piss out of.

I reckon you cunts have never done a hard day's graft in your shitty bullshitting worthless cսnt office lives. What do you actually offer..? What would you bring to the table when the shit hits the fan?..

Its going to be a 'fuckin shit show' for you.

Hang your heads you fuckin vermin..

Hey guys

Driz.. 1.26 Well composed piece

Driz. DO you fumble in the dark?

Driz. DO you fumble in the dark?

AKA ERNIE That was very brave of you pal.. Bonzo.. Good stuff.

Driz stick in there mate there's help out there but she needs to want it. There's also help for you and its worth looking at I've been through 5yrs of counciling in the past and it made a huge difference. I also suffered with bullimea for 30 yesterday after my mum died whe I was 19 and didn't think I could talk anyone but my misses got me to go and it finally got me in a position where I can control it. Never feel ashamed to talk or ask for help.

"Cheers Norm. Mrs Bonds is doing great. Little bit to great,does my nut in half the time,preferred life when she had the full time ump. Joking,both of us dont ever want to get anywhere near her dark days again."

"only1billybonds You are what I class as a proper man.respect to you and hope your missus is doing okay. Driz.. As others said, stick in there pal."

"Driz. Feel for you,my Mrs went through a big depression and it was awful feeling so helpless. Best advice i can give you is make sure you give yourself space (mentally) to keep on being yourself as its the real you that she loves and she'll need to know that you're still there. We talk about it now and my Mrs said the one thing that kept her hanging on was knowing that the bloke she loved was still there,walking around the house singing and generally being the same as always. Not easy to do at times but absolutely necessary. Stay strong. Be lucky."

"Driz Feel for you mate. This may not sound helpful, but in some ways you are helpless. You can do everything in the world, but the person suffering had to take the first step themselves. This is coming from someone on the other side of the things. I was going to ask if she has family that can support, but you’ve answered that just now. You can’t help her on your own, she needs a support network and professional help. Best of luck mate. Now she’s taken the first step, she is much more likely to get through it."

Driz You always have us

Mike Oxsaw Well said mate..

"Driz 6:51 Thu Feb 4 Best of luck, fella. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. After reading and re-reading your original post, all I could think of is that you take up a trivial, personal hobby, such as doing a jigsaw and see if she shows any interest (without being invited). If she throws it all on the floor, well, it's only a jigsaw... Guess that simply shows how little I understand about the situation."